What to wear? Our Dress Code Guide from the Formal to the Fanciful.

For the Bride and Groom, their wedding dress code goes far beyond what they will be wearing on the big day. Increasingly, the extended bridal party and guests want specific guidance on what will be deemed appropriate. Navigating the world of dress codes can be tricky, so we have put together this helpful guide setting out some of the considerations, as well as explanations of the most popular dress codes.

Definitions of the most popular dress codes

In the Mediterranean, these are the most usual dress codes we are seeing right now:

Black Tie  -  An easy option for men as it requires a tuxedo and usually a bow tie although it has become increasingly acceptable to wear a tie that corresponds with the colour of your partner’s outfit. For ladies, it suggests a formal gown or at the very least a sophisticated cocktail dress.

Formal - As the wording suggests, this dress code is slightly less formal than a black-tie wedding. A tuxedo isn't required, but can still be worn if preferred. If opting for a suit, a formal dark suit, white shirt, and a conservative tie are usually expected. For women, the outfit choices remain the same: a formal gown, a cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit.

Cocktail - A popular option that sits neatly between Formal and Semi-formal. ‘Cocktail’ is a balance between comfort and elegance, formal and casual. Women can opt for knee-length or midi-style tea dress. Men should still opt for a suit and tie but should not be restricted to very formal dark colours.

Semi-Formal or Smart-Casual - Considering the time and location of the ceremony is important when dressing for a semi-formal wedding. Darker, more formal colours are appropriate for evening celebrations, while bright colors and light airy options are ideal for daytime gatherings. Dressy skirts, slip dresses, below-the-knee gowns, and sophisticated pantsuits (accessorised with formal flats, elegant wedges, or heels) are all acceptable options for women. For men, choose formal pants and a dress shirt; a tie is optional.

Beach/Pool Attire – Summer weddings in the Mediterranean can be hot and humid. Whilst this dress code might indicate swimwear and sarongs, this is usually not the case. Instead, go for lightweight fabrics such as silks and linens. Women can feel comfortable in flowing sundresses and kaftans, whilst men can opt for tailored shorts and short-sleeved shirts.

In addition to the traditional dress codes above, we love to add our own twist by suggesting customised dress codes which reflect the style and character of the bridal couple and their wedding destination. Think ‘Island Elegance’, an invitation to bring out your summer suits and long flowing dresses, or ‘Mediterranean Glam’ if you prefer your guests to adhere to a more formal style of dress.

Don’t Forget Footwear

Always give details on appropriate footwear if your wedding venue is made up of mostly lawns or gravel areas. There is nothing worse than ladies ruining heeled shoes and stilettos by hobbling across cobbles, sand, or rocky areas. Advise ladies to opt for wedges or flats. 

Weather Appropriate

Depending on the time of year and the location of the venue, you may want to recommend that ladies bring a light shawl or pashmina to wrap around their shoulders at night. If you’re hosting an event in July or August when the temperatures are at their highest, make sure to give the gentlemen a break by saying ’ties optional’. 

Definite No-No’s

If you don’t wish for your guests to wear whites, ivory, cream or nudes, specify so on your invitation and wedding website.

Pre/Post Wedding Events

When couples opt for a destination wedding, the celebrations can span for several days involving barbeques, brunches, and themed events. This is the time to let loose and be creative with the dress codes. Whether it’s neon, flower power, all white or ‘la dolce vita’ – have fun with it!

Most Importantly: Be Specific!

Don’t be afraid to be overly detailed. Guests take comfort in knowing what will be appropriate and it puts them at ease.

Love, Johanna x